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Marissa Aurora's avatar

A simple truth I needed this morning 🤍✨

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Nadia Meli's avatar

So glad it found you at the right time! ❤️

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Vipul Bhesania's avatar

Thank you for sharing this wonderful piece Nadia. I want to acknowledge you for the time and effort it takes to create and share content vulnerably from the heart. Reading this reminds me of a conversation I had with a friend once. He asked me if every hardship I experienced in life made me stronger. I said “No. I think it’s made me softer. It’s given me a softer heart. I’ve become more empathetic and compassionate towards others because I know what pain and suffering is. I know what it feels like to be human.” Sending you love ❤️

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Nadia Meli's avatar

Thank you for acknowledging that, it means the world. And I love your response. The 'stronger' trope is so old. Thanks for being soft.

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Vipul Bhesania's avatar

🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

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andria shawneise's avatar

Thank you for this perspective! It does so much for this softie ♥️

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Nadia Meli's avatar

That makes me happy! You're not alone in this!

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Vipul Bhesania's avatar

You’re not alone Andria. As Ram Dass once said, “We’re all walking each other home”. ❤️🙏🏽

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Mirjam Bican's avatar

Thank you so much for your words. This reminds me of and feels like an addition to the words by Rumi: "you have to keep breaking your heart until it opens." And the words of Jaiya John: "May the ocean of our tears soften the stone of our heart. May we break all the way to beautiful."

Now I'm here crying and softening, softening. Thank you for being there and sharing your love.

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Nadia Meli's avatar

Awww Mirjam! Thank you so much for this. Sending love to your heart! ❤️

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Kaitlyn Rightmyer's avatar

The strongest things are also the softest. Thank you.

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Nadia Meli's avatar

Exactly true! ❤️

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Benivia Lee's avatar

A beautiful and delicate reminder...

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Nadia Meli's avatar

Thank you for being here ❤️

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Alex Elle's avatar

WOW. Glorious!

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Nadia Meli's avatar

Thank you Alex ❤️🙏🏼

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Blake Roberts | Therapist's avatar

This is beautiful. So so good.

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Nadia Meli's avatar

Thank you Blake!

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María Del Mar's avatar

So beautiful ❤️

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Nadia Meli's avatar

Thank you Maria 🙏🏼

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Misha Khan's avatar

This was such a beautiful piece, Nadia and a reminder I really needed today -- thank you so much for sharing ❤️

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Nadia Meli's avatar

I am so happy it found you when you needed it!

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Michelle's avatar

It’s like your writing just gave my heart a little hug ♥️❤️‍🩹♥️

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Nadia Meli's avatar

owwwww 🥹

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Halil İbrahim's avatar

Sometimes we think letting go something will make us weak but it might make us softer. Your explanation of being soft is awesome. It reminds us this:being soft is not weakness maybe it is mature.

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Nadia Meli's avatar

Absolutely!!! Thank you for being here Halil.

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Lauren Neufeld's avatar

So beautiful 🍋

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Nadia Meli's avatar

Thank you Lauren!

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Murmurations Movement's avatar

I am learning to adore my softness. Thank you for this beautiful reflection (and your grandmother’s wisdom).

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