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Nadia Meli's avatar

Yes and no. Overall in life I don't believe in a 'bigger purpose' or a right way to do it and a wrong way etc, and yes, agree, in that sense, life itself is about the journey, not getting somewhere specific. However, within this big long life there are definitely personal arrivals and many many moments where one desires to come home, which can mean different things to different people ❤️

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Giselle La Pompe-Moore's avatar

My soul needed the medicine of these words. I will carry them with me.

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Nadia Meli's avatar

Knowing this is the reason to write. Always. Love you 🫶🏽

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Febechukwu's avatar

This is so beautiful

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Nadia Meli's avatar

Thank you for reading ❤️

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Mark Malinak's avatar

Reading this made me cry — for most days I feel lost to myself and what the path forward will look like. After suddenly losing my wife five years ago, I have deliberately placed my broken open heart into an internal terrain of gestation and unknowing. A place where I continue to reassess who I am and what I am becoming. And most importantly, a land where finding meaning and beauty and a continued fealty to the embodied spirit of my beloved takes precedence. Despair and loneliness are constant companions yet I have unwavering faith that most of what I touch, see, and feel has made this journey sacred. Thank you, Nadia.

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Nadia Meli's avatar

Thank you for sharing your pain so tenderly and generously with me Mark. I am sending you softness ❤️

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Stephanie Gamarra's avatar

Reading this on a solo trip in Marrakech. Been solo traveling for a few years. Grateful but lonely. This found me at the right time 🖤

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Nadia Meli's avatar

I am so glad to hear this Stephanie. Marrakech is a soul home for me. I hope it treats you gently and gives you joy!

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marie angie's avatar

I love this and needed this to remind me that I am not falling behind!!

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Nadia Meli's avatar

You are NOT! I am so happy the reminder found you at the right time!

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marie angie's avatar

Yes! I am working on my MA thesis right now and it can feel so overwhelming at times that, I am taking a long time but as you say maybe I am taking the scenic route.

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Grace Brown's avatar

You just get it. Thank you.

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Nadia Meli's avatar

❤️

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Raquel's avatar

this is beyond beautiful - thank you

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Nadia Meli's avatar

Thank you for reading and leaving love in the comment section!

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Pau Suárez Gomís's avatar

Maybe. Probably. Most likely. I choose this. Yes.

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Nadia Meli's avatar

So wonderful!

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Aliyah's avatar

This is so beautiful!!

Letting the road write the story. Wow . This was brought me a sense of peace and calm. Thank you

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Nadia Meli's avatar

I am so glad it did! Thank you for reading and sharing with me how it made you feel!

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Elly's avatar

This describes perfectly where I'm at in my life, slowing down, taking time to work out what fills me with joy, losing the 'have tos' and 'musts', it's a work in progress, it feels different but so much better.

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Nadia Meli's avatar

Sounds like you are on an exciting track Elly!

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ʞrys's avatar

this is beautiful. thank you for writing it.

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Nadia Meli's avatar

Thank you for reading it and letting me know you did ❤️

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Tisha Mus's avatar

Wholesome! Loved it :)

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Nadia Meli's avatar

Thank you so much for being here!

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Matjaž Horvat's avatar

Maybe. But why do I feel so miserable most of the time, and will this ever change?

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Nadia Meli's avatar

Life is cyclical, so while I do not know your situation, it is very likely that yes, it will change. I hope that you are supported through it all and have people around you for the journey!

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Harneek Chawla's avatar

This is so beautiful Nadia, thanks for writing this. I feel like hugging myself and also hugging you after reading this 💚💚💚

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Nadia Meli's avatar

I love hugs!!!!!! 😍 And love that you felt this way after reading this. Thank you so much for your warmth Harneek!

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Jasmine's avatar

“Maybe that bumpy road you ended up on accidentally, that took you to an ugly place with a terrible view is ok too.” validating tender and much needed to hear words oh what a precious sanctuary you’ve created here Nadia

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Nadia Meli's avatar

Jasmine, thank you for your warm words and support. It means the world. And I am so happy you find yourself in this piece of writing.

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