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Paulo Yarisantos's avatar

Hits home. I deliberately didn't do any work on the weekend because I was seeking this out. ALL OF IT.

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Nadia Meli's avatar

And what did you find!

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Paulo Yarisantos's avatar

Do what counts!!!

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Geno Noor's avatar

Brilliant and timely - Gratitude. Perhaps the alchemization of who we actually are at this moment to the becoming of the human being we actually want to be requires manual dexterity and the ability to transcend the normative behaviours that may surround us. This may in fact require great courage, pain and - yes - Integrity. Best Wishes on your journey and thank you for sharing your thoughts with us all.

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Nadia Meli's avatar

Thank you for reading and being here!

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Fi Reyes's avatar

Such an important post! Thanks for a great read.

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Nadia Meli's avatar

Thank you for reading!

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Tanya's avatar

I needed to read this today. Thank you ❤️

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Nadia Meli's avatar

Thank you so much for reading and leaving love on the page!

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Alo Anthologies's avatar

“Revolution lives in our actions” — thank you for writing this piece

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Nadia Meli's avatar

I almost didn't publish it. And was agonising over how to phrase things. It means the world that you read it. And thank you for leaving love on the page. I hope this carries into everyday life.

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Sammy Wan's avatar

Thank you for this thought-provoking piece! I love it when a piece of writing makes me pause, ponder an reconsider my choices, and call out the BS in my own life. I realize for me that maybe integrity right now isn’t about grand rebellion and makeover of my life, maybe it’s just one uncomfortable “yes” at a time, and ditching those performative values and perfectionism.

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Nadia Meli's avatar

Thank you for being here and leaving such an important thought as well. It's all about one small uncomfortable step at a time, 100% yes! Those daily decision are harder than joining a protest!

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Wardah Abbas's avatar

I love love love this! I felt it deeply! Soo profound! ❤️❤️❤️

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Nadia Meli's avatar

Thank you so much for loving it and letting me know ❤️

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Cassie Marie's avatar

Loved it! And o totally agree. There is integrity in the big things like keeping your word, meaning what you say and embodying what you value. But it is also found in those little moments too, like taking the shopping cart back to its bay or replacing a toilet roll when you are the last person to use it. I find integrity in doing something because it’s a nice thing to do, even if I don’t benefit from it.

Enjoyed reading your piece 😊

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Nadia Meli's avatar

Absolutely! And doing something because it's a NECESSARY thing to do. Even when it doesn't "feel good". Thank you for leaving me some love on the page!

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Elly's avatar

Integrity has been sadly lacking in our world recently, as my Native Elders said, there are those who walk their talk but far too many talk the talk but don't do the walk.

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Nadia Meli's avatar

Indeed 💔

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Leti's avatar

Beautiful post and so true, thank you for writing it!

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Nadia Meli's avatar

Thank you for reading it! ❤️

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Sarina Zoe's avatar

So good 🤍

I appreciate not only this message but the writing style you delivered it with.

One of my yoga teachers used to say these exact words about integrity, I love your reminder. Thanks Nadia

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Nadia Meli's avatar

Thank you so much for reading and sharing Sarina ❤️

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The Alfalfa Mail's avatar

Amazing, as ever. The cadence and force of delivery is evident here, it really hits home. I love it.

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Nadia Meli's avatar

Thank you so much, I appreciate you 🤗

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The Alfalfa Mail's avatar

😊

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crumbs & comfort's avatar

Truly enjoyed this post. Thank you.

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Nadia Meli's avatar

Thank you for reading and letting me know what it meant to you! ❤️

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crumbs & comfort's avatar

Of course, my pleasure! 💛

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Tolani, MSc.'s avatar

Such a great read!

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Nadia Meli's avatar

Thank you for reading!

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Anisa Flowers's avatar

I consider integrity my top core value so I really enjoyed this essay—thanks for sharing it! It feels appropriate to share that the term “blind eye” is typically regarded as ableist (similar to “colour blind” and “tone deaf”) as disabled people and our disabilities are often dragged into these phrases that describe people’s chosen/willful ignorance. It feels unfair as many blind people, obviously, are plenty socially aware/conscious. Just a heads up on some language I encourage you to reconsider. Hope this lands well!

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Nadia Meli's avatar

Thank you for pointing that out, I appreciate it.

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Stanley Fritz's avatar

I love your writing so much because in it I get a piece of you but I’m also challenged to look deeper at myself. Thank you, friend! ❤️

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Nadia Meli's avatar

Thank you friend. So grateful you're here!

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