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Thank you for putting words to something I have wondered about for so long but had never really found the words to articulate.

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Would love to hear / read more about how you experienced this! Xx

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Jul 2, 2023Liked by Nadia Meli

This is something I’ve been reflecting on for a while now, so this is so timely. Your admission that you don’t get over people, and people you love are with you forever is so brave to me because I do put a time on “getting over” things and I can be so hard on myself about this. I feel inspired to sit with my thoughts on this subject, journal and hopefully be able to come to truths like you did in this beautiful piece. Thanks for sharing! x

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You are welcome! Thank you for reading and also sharing your thoughts! x If it helps you a tiny bit on your own journey, I am happy!

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Jul 4, 2023Liked by Nadia Meli

your words match my experience perfectly, thank you. it is so countercultural - and so brave. It is not necessarily easier, but it is the right kind of hard because it doesn’t violate the truth we feel inside of us.

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100% it's more aligned with who I am even though everyone around me parrots the same thing!

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I feel this so so much! I never understood what people meant with getting over someone. For me it always was something like making peace with a situation or a change in life, but the feels would still be there just in another way. Thanks for sharing 🙌

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Same, I just don't get it! :) And it doesn't make much sense but it's something culture wants us to subscribe to!

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Jul 13, 2023Liked by Nadia Meli

Cheers to never letting go.🥂♥️

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🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼

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Again, words of my heart, I resonate, I resonate, I resonate.

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